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Casey's blog

Why "pre-baby body" is a bullshit concept

29/12/2017

 
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Let me tell you a story...

Once upon a time, a beautiful princess decided she wanted to have a baby. So she instantly fell pregnant and ​had a perfect pregnancy where she grew a "cute little" bump and didn't gain weight in any other part of her body. Her face didn't explode with pimples in the first trimester whilst her body adjusted to the crazy hormone fluctuations, and she was never EVER a mega bitch to her husband, the prince.

She kept exercising five times a week and eating one salad a day throughout her whole pregnancy like a respectable lady ought to. Then she had a wonderful birth and the next week returned to her pre-baby body so she could continue her life as a professional fitness model as if nothing happened.

Her belly never resembled a cake sagging in the middle from overdoing the baking powder. She never once accidentally shat her pants or peed whilst reaching for a box of cereal in the supermarket, no way. And her baby was perfect and sleeping through the night by zero weeks of age, just in case you were wondering.  And she lived happily ever after. The end.


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So many normal and necessary changes happen to a woman’s body - and life - during pregnancy and after birth. And yet society and the media gloss over all the (literally) shitty stuff and instead feed us the unicorn fairytale version of what motherhood and parenting is "supposed" to look like.

No where is this more evident than in the whole idea of getting your "pre-baby body" back.


Diet culture is relentless in sending new mothers messages about needing to fix their so-called imperfections - that they need to "bounce back", lose the baby weight, and flatten their newly soft and stretched tummies within weeks.

Sadly, the way many new mums attempt to live up to this impossible standard is through restrictive dieting and over-zealous exercise, often taken on before the pelvic floor and abdomen have had a chance to repair. Neither of which are in the best interests of mum or baby, especially if mum is breastfeeding.

Pregnancy and postpartum are not a time to diet

Not only is this concept completely insane and biologically inappropriate, it's also very dangerous. Pregnancy and the postpartum period are times when many mums feel especially insecure about the changes in their bodies. 

​It’s also one of the three times in a woman’s life when the risk for developing an eating disorder (or worsening pre-existing disordered eating behaviours) is highest, the other two being puberty and peri-menopause.
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My biggest gripe is with the fundamental idea that we can even return to our pre-pre-baby bodies at all. The truth is, there’s no going back. We are not meant to have a pre-baby body forever contrary to what diet culture tells us. It's not good for us, nor for our babies.

​The only time we’re meant to have a pre-baby body, is before we get pregnant. 

Given I'm currently 38 weeks into my second pregnancy, this topic is at the forefront of my consciousness more than ever!

​There is so much more to say about this issue that I spent 45 minutes discussing it with Louise Adams from the All Fired Up podcast. We had a fantastic time raging against the way diet culture attacks women at this very vulnerable point in their lives, and why it's so unhelpful.

What we cover in our pregnancy, postpartum & diet culture interview:

  • ​​The cultural phenomenon of body scrutiny during pregnancy
  • The four most vulnerable flash points in our lives when diet culture strangles women
  • How pregnancy and postpartum differ in terms of risk of developing an eating disorder
  • The problem with thinking we should get back to our pre-baby (or even pre-pubescent) body shape after pregnancy
  • Busting the myth that returning to our pre-baby weight and shape is even possible
  • The difference between changing your body, and settling in to your body after baby
  • Why dieting might be a distraction from addressing bigger issues in postpartum
  • The benefits of a social media detox
  • Why more health providers need to be aware of the dangers of weight loss dieting in pregnancy and in postpartum
  • The additional stigma experienced by pregnant women in larger bodies
  • The problem of prominent health professionals with large media followings who perpetuate the myth of "body after baby"
  • Why pregnancy is a great opportunity to discover intuitive eating
  • ​Exactly why Michelle Bridges' 12WBT "Pregnancy Plan" is insanely dangerous, and how her diet plan compares to that of the world's poorest women and WWII death camp rations
  • How women can protect themselves, their babies, and their bodies against "Body After Baby" pressure
  • How traditional cultures approach the postpartum period
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Go here to listen to our interview on why diet culture has no place in pregnant and postpartum women's wellbeing, or look it up on iTunes under All Fired Up, Episode 18.

​As Louise so nicely sums up during our conversation:
"We need to stop approaching pregnancy with an eating disorders mindset."
If you find the episode helpful or have any follow up questions, please let me know all about it in the comments below. I’ll do my best to either address them here or in a future post.

With love for all the mamas and mamas to be out there,
​Casey
PEN
18/5/2019 10:20:46 am

Weight gain after pregnancy has a lot to do with social isolation. People tend to gain weight when they are isolated from people.

Women who are sleep deprived (newborn), socially isolated, and overwhelmed tend to eat. Particularly in an environment where food is easily accessible and cheap.

What you're saying is absolutely valid, but there's also a information pointing to the fact that overconsumption of food negatively affects the quality of life for women. Sagging breasts and abdominal skin is a fact of life for many women, you are correct. Put a high BMI associated with depression and anxiety many mothers after their births, is also a reality.

Doctors need to be less delicate, to shake women up and TELL them to change their eatting habits and activity levels.... or they just won't have the energy or life duration to enjoy the children they decided to have.

Casey
6/10/2019 11:20:53 pm

I totally agree that the sleep deprivation and isolation inherent to most women experiencing new motherhood is a huge barrier to the capacity for mums to get basic needs (healthy food, sleep) met. Being overtired, overstressed and under-supported leads to women trying to meet their energy needs and coping with the increased psychological demands in other ways, such as through emotional eating, and yes we may gain weight.

But weight gain is a side effect of new motherhood, and not something we should be focussing our efforts on changing. Instead we should be focussing on getting these women the psychological and social support they need so they have a greater range of coping skills and tools to help manage the strains of motherhood.

To be clear, I think this is a societal problem and NOT the fault of the mother.

Do you think that doctors shaking women and telling them to "do better" will actually result in improved health outcomes for sleep-deprived and socially isolated mums? I know that when I was in the depths of postnatal depression after my first baby and tired beyond belief, a doctor doing this to me would have only made me feel more isolated and ashamed.

I think we need to support women far more than we currently do. A good doctor will see the need for extra support and offer psychological and allied health input, not just "tell" them to change.


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